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Advise Only Those Who Require It
inally, I have come to learn that very many who seek advice really do not want to hear it. They only want to talk, and most often hear themselves talking. This act of talking, in itself, does not have to be considered a terrible thing, for many an intelligent person comes to realize the solution to the vexing problem upon its aural articulation and repetition. Some even reach a definite decision or gain a powerful … Read entire article »
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Why Are You Living With A Chip On Your Shoulder?
Call it ultra-sensitivity. Call it resentment. Call it unforgiveness. Call it whatever we want, but when we allow past negative experiences with people to negatively impact how we deal with the people we are with right now, we are living with a chip on our shoulder. This is not about using the lessons learned to prevent future injury. It is not about being about doormats for others to wipe their feet on. This is about shutting … Read entire article »
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Who Do The Strong Go To For Help?
ven as conflicting stories emerge of Major Hasan’s motivation’s for shooting his colleagues in uniform this week just past, the remark made by a former Fort Hood chaplain rings true: (paraphrased) “Nobody is interested in hearing the strong whine or complain. Who do the strong go to for help?” The strong do need help, advice, comfort, nurture and support. Many make the mistake of giving to others all the time, basking in the limelight of being … Read entire article »
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